Who doesn’t want to look like a sexy, hot woman? The trick, of course, is to avoid crossing that fine line from sexy to slutty.
If you are a crossdresser or transgender woman who wants to look sexy AND classy, you’ve come to the right place.
First, let’s define what won’t necessarily make you sexy:
- Wearing super short skirts and stripper heels
- Putting on huge breast forms
- Pouting your lips and sticking your butt out
True sexiness is a lot more subtle. In this blog post, I share 5 easy things you can do to enhance your feminine sex appeal – without overdoing it.
1. Don’t Bare It All
When it comes to dressing sexy, the #1 rule to keep in mind is: Leave something to the imagination.
Rather than baring it all, try showing off just one area of your body at a time.
- For example, you could flaunt your legs in a shorter skirt or dress, while keeping your arms and chest covered with a higher neckline or long sleeves.
- Or, you might choose to reveal your décolletage with a lower-cut top, but then balance it out with a longer skirt or trousers.
By highlighting just one area of your body, you create a sexy yet sophisticated look that is sure to turn heads.
2. Wear Red
Color is a huge part of the impression you make on people. Each color has a meaning that is communicated on a subconscious level.
If you’re looking to up your feminine sex appeal, there’s one color you should be reaching for – RED.
This bold hue is synonymous with passion, desire, and love, making it the perfect color to wear to ignite your sensual side.
Incorporating even a few touches of red, such as a statement bag or a pair of heels, can work wonders for enhancing your feminine allure.
3. Define Your Waistline
One way to accentuate your figure without showing too much skin is by defining your waistline. This technique not only flatters your shape but also creates a sexy hourglass silhouette.
Achieving this look is simple – try wearing a belt over a dress or tucking in a top at the waist.
Another excellent option for defining your waist is a wrap dress, which cinches in at the waistline and flatters your curves.
For more tips on how to create that sexy hourglass shape, be sure to check out my blog post on How to Get a More Feminine Figure (Male to Female): Top 5 MTF Tips.
4. Try a Sexy Workout
Achieving a fit, toned body through regular exercise is undoubtedly a great way to feel sexy. However, why not take it one step further and try a workout that also enhances your sex appeal?
Belly dancing, pole dancing, or cardio striptease are all excellent options that not only burn calories but also allow you to channel your inner seductress.
These workouts also help develop more feminine and fluid body movements, an essential part of an overall attractive feminine appearance.
Try the Sensual Dance Tutorial For Beginners in Heels workout above and get started today!
5. Wear Sexy Lingerie
It’s hard NOT to feel sexy in a pretty bra and panties.
Even if you don’t plan to show off your underwear, wearing sexy lingerie under your clothes (whether it’s male or female attire) will make you feel more seductive and confident.
You should also get rid of any lingerie that doesn’t add to your sex appeal. This includes anything that’s worn out or that doesn’t fit properly. If it doesn’t make you feel hot, don’t keep it!
For more on how to look your best in lingerie, check out my blog post on Crossdressing / Transgender Lingerie: How to Look Hot in Female Lingerie.
What are your favorite ways to look sexy and classy?
As always, I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. What are your favorite ways to look both sexy and classy? Please leave a comment below!
Love,
Lucille
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Ever since my engagement last October, different types and styles of chemises have been my focus of late. This is an increase in tempo as I have mastered dressing smart and tastefully sexy for the corporate work environment while dressing sexy hot for dating and leisure through the years of my transition.
I have been a fully developed, non op (no plans for SRS) transgendered woman for the past eight years who finally met the love of her life and now finds fulfillment being sensual as possible when alone with my fiancé. On the night my sweetie came over to take me to dinner and propose, I was ready for him when we got back to my house and wore a short, see through Morgan Taylor Lace Chemise in black with nothing else except high heeled evening slides and perfume to continue the romantic evening and consummate the engagement. My new future husband was literally speechless when I walked in the living room. Body hugging, transparent chemises really bring out the best of my acquired figure of 34D-27-36, plus are a romance multiplier as well as making me feel really girly! Small size usually works while the matching g-string and bikini panties I usually don’t bother with but will wear occasionally.
For me, the ultimate feel of being sexy is during passionate romance, so I dress accordingly for the occasion. My evening wear for our upcoming wedding night in May includes lace top thigh-highs, a lace chemise and robe, a lace g-string, a lace veil, and high heel evening slides with all items in white; these were all purchased within a month of being given my engagement ring. Can you tell I’m really excited
about my honey and I spending our lives together?
Wearing a sexy push up bra and panties make me feel so sexy and feminine. I love my new femme name lisa. I am not yet full time as a women but hope to be soon. Lisa.
Wearing a sexy push up bra and panties makes me feel so femme. I love my new femme name lisa. Hope to be living full time time soon. Lisa.
I started belly dancing classes before I came out full time. These classes have given me posture, confidence and great socialisation skills as female. I can highly recommend it.
Hi Michelle honey if I ever get out of male mode which I’m stuck in now I may try it at home before I’m still a little on the shy side I hope I get over that my confidence is still a little low my life turned a little upside down when my wife passed away due to illness and I’m not quite over that yet I’m trying to move forward but for now I’m stuck at my non understanding sisters but thanks for the tip and the encouragement Love M.J.
I feel my best while shopping and getting help with sizeing for the best looking dresses and bras at a womens only clothing store. The saleslady treats me just like I am a lady that wants to look her best. I love the new lady I have become with your help.
walking in high heels, wear stockings, pantyhose, and all types of hosiery, love thongs, paint my nails in red, and I love my new name : Ninna , makes me feel very feminine
Wearing red does make me feel sexy. Whenever I see a classy, beautiful, confident woman she’s always wearing something red. Lipstick and nail polish are my favorite thing to wear in red. I am becoming the classy woman I’ve always aspired to be. And when I fix my red lipstick I truly feel like the woman I was meant to be a and have become.
Hi Lucille
Your are right girl wearing red does make you look and feel sexy. I never thought about that before. Yes I can feel so sexy when I wear my skirt with a nice underwear like a thong or panties. But just wearing a nice sun dress can make me feel beautiful in a nice hot summer day outside. Not to mention what girl like myself does not love to wear her pretty bikini. My number one goal when I dress up is too make myself look sexy, how can anyone that dresses up not feel that way everyday. I love being a girl and I hope and wish someday I can feel like one pretty sexy women in this world when I walk down the street with my man holding my hand.
Hi Lucille.I hope you’re fine.
Thank you for your free video for Top 10 Male To Female Tips,they’ll be very useful as I go out in public alot now and love it.I do make eye contact while out and smile,too,which I feel is important,and I often find a warm smile is received.:-)Red is one of my favourite colours that I feel very sexy wearing.I have a black and red dress which I love going out wearing and that makes me feel very sexy and sensual.Getting a sexy workout video is a brilliant idea and something I will definitely buy with having a love for dancing!I love wearing lingerie which I own plenty of in various colours,it does make me feel so intensely sexy and amazing!
Love and hugs,Debs :-* XXXXXX