Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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It is pointless to be guilty about who you are. The only reason to feel guilty is if you are engaged in some kind of deception, using trans to get yourself something you don’t think you deserve. If trans is what you truly believe yourself to be, then you are just that and you should not apologize for it.
I have had feminine feelings since my childhood. I begin wearing feminine clothing when I was 12. I told no one about my wanting to be a girl and doing girl activities. I dated girls because it was the thing to do in my area. I stopped dressing through high school and college but started again when I got married. I eventually started shopping and purchasing my own feminine clothing. I kept in the closet during the first 13 years of my first marriage. Finally, I went to see a counselor and wanted to be more open about my sexuality. I finally decided to tell my wife. She did not accept it but went to counseling with me. Nothing changed except I stopped dressing for 9 months. 10 years later we divorced for other reasons. I continue to dress and wear make-up from time to time and I am attracted to certain men. I remain in the closet because of the profession I work in which is white collar professional and quite high profile. I’m hoping when I retire , I can finally live as a feminine being. I live as a female when I am out of town and after working hours and on weekends when I am able. So, yes I feel guilty.
“Deanna”…”You Look Great”…I hope that you can find a “Loving Man” to make your life complete !!!
I am firmly known by almost everyone as a male. I think they consider me a little strange anyway so the transition would not be a problem except that I have a very serious professional job and don’t want my clients to feel adversely affected. But I cheer others on and wish I were 20 and able to pull it off full time myself. I do have fun with my little band of friends and love putting on high heels and pantyhose.
I don’t feel ashamed of being transgendered (MTF), but for my family they would be and the pressure that society puts on those around us makes transgender and cross dressers feel shame for them. It is too bad we can’t at this time live openly as who we are. When I go out in femme I must sneak out so neighbors won’t see, but I go out with my other trans/cross-dresser friends and then we must travel to the gay area in our city where we can be ourselves. It is very painful having to live a lie just because some people would feel uncomfortable if I lived openly as the woman I have always known I am. I’m in my late 50’s so I know I will not live to see the day when living as my true self will be accepted. Times are changing just far to slowly. All we can do is continue helping the people we come in contact with learn that we don’t have to be feared, but to understand we just want to live and be happy like everybody else.
I used to be very ashamed/guilty/disgusted. Even suicidal. What changed all that was the pissed off woman in me to own up to the truth. In the process of that I discovered I am a DES son, and my transness was a result of this. Now it has become clinical and not personal. No more guilt, stress, disgust, and I like me now. Even love me now. Been in therapy, on estrogen and life has balanced out for the first time in my 62 years of life. No looking back, there is hope and never give up girls. Find out about DES. See if you are a victim. Life is better everyday, love shopping, dressing, all the girly stuff I so longed for brings pleasure instead of pain. I hope this helps others…..
Hi Lucille, I love the help you give us all. Thank you so much. I am not like most of your “girls” because I am still very much a man. I have this insatiable desire to understand what it is to be a woman, but I do not want to stop being a man because I am completely comfortable with who I am, as a man, and as a woman. Even my wife understands my feelings. I do not have any guilt about cross-dressing, although I do not get to dress as often as I would like to. I think I understand that we all must be true to our inner feelings, and society isn’t always ready to understand, so there is nothing wrong with concealing what is inside.
I wish I would have had these very strong feminine feelings when I was half my age, I am 61 now and in VERY good shape sexy long legs and a cute little butt and lot’s of pretty golden blonde hair, but aside from all that my feminine side is getting stronger and stronger everyday and I’m so happy and very proud about my new identity…….P.S. Just love sexy sheer pantyhose and cute open toed shoes and light babypink frosty lipstick……needless to say I’m very happy and every day is a new fabulous adventure.
2 years ago a department head at UofSC wrote in the Wall Street Journal that MRI’s and autopsies show that -to varying degrees-our brains tend toward the female brain structure–so why be guilty??
I have been a tgirl for long time too bad I didnt try it years ago it is so nice being a girl I always tened that way even as a young person. I am happy except I am not able to be with my love just wish society would chill about it its no big deal and it dont make you gay if your not ….
I have to continue to hide my crossdressing. My wife is aware but doesnt want to see me that way. It took me 40 years to come out of the closet, but yet my fem clothes are still there. I rarely if ever get to dress.