Do you ever find yourself wondering if it’s okay to crossdress? Do you feel weighed down by society’s judgment and expectations?
Well, it’s time to shed that weight and liberate yourself! Let’s talk about why crossdressing is absolutely okay, and why you should embrace it without any guilt.
1. Self-Expression Matters
As humans, expressing ourselves is a basic core need.
Crossdressing is just one way to showcase your personality, tastes, and preferences through clothing. It’s an ideal outlet for creativity and individuality.
2. Fashion Has No Gender
Who says certain clothes are meant only for specific genders?
Clothes don’t have an inherent gender; they are pieces of fabric that can be enjoyed by anyone. So, wear what makes you feel confident and fabulous!
3. Breaking Free from Gender Norms
Crossdressing challenges outdated gender norms. It’s time to break free from rigid ideas of what’s “appropriate” to wear.
Crossdressing allows you to take a stand against society’s expectations and encourages others to do the same.
4. It’s Not Harmful
Let’s be clear – crossdressing is harmless. As long as you’re not hurting anyone, there’s no reason to feel bad about it.
Feeling guilty about expressing yourself through clothing is unnecessary and unproductive.
In conclusion
Being true to yourself is a beautiful thing, and it sets an example for others to do the same.
So, let go of the guilt, and embrace your fabulous, feminine side!
Now I’d love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Do you ever feel guilty about crossdressing? If you’ve overcome feelings of guilt, how did you do so?
Please take my poll and leave me your comments below!
Love,
Lucille
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sitting here with tears in eyes why am i like this what does god have planned for me i don’t know all i know is that want to be a girl i have since i was 5 all those years of beating myself up an discuss i just wish it was all over thank god for my wife for at least letting me dress-up in pretty things so i can at least feel like a girl once an a while why can’t i have everything like a girl has everyday (wear my dresses,do my nails ,fix my hair,have a man) i guess i’am just ashamed an i don’t want to be HELP ME
Thankfully no longer, but it took an understanding woman (my wife) to accept me before I could accept myself. I will always be grateful for her love and acceptance and it has added so much fun to our marriage!
Dearest Ms.Lucille,I love my feminine side and adore being feminised by dominant Ladies.l can’t wait to hear from you.Michael aka,Sissy
Do I feel guilty about having white skin and blue eyes or having ten fingers and ten toes? Certainly not! I was born that way and I had no control over the way I was born. Just like being transgender, it’s part of being me.
I never really thought it was wrong, I just didn’t want to get caught…by certain people…I have always tried to find GF’s that are open to my way of life…only two were OK with it…one left me…That hurt..
I have been married for over 8yrs and we’ve been together for over 13, I told my wife within a few mths of meeting her…She laughed and said..”OK, you’re not gay are you?”..No, I replied…we’ve had loads of fun over the years and I sometimes wish I could dress full time at home, but we’ve got a young daughter and I don’t want to freak her out…We both think our daughter has a good idea, but I can wait till she is older to help her understand that Daddy is a little different form other men…But, we can go shopping and have great fun together! LOL
To other people that have voted that they feel guilty…please try not to feel this way…Love yourself…<3
Best of luck in life…
Tissy.
I has always had a side to me to that feels like a woman and i do cross dress and date both sex but there are only a handful of people that kno i cross dress and i just feel like a weigh would leave me if i told my parents but they r big devout Christians and believe in it strongly n i have no where else to go at the moment stuck between dead end jobs n now im really screwed cuz i just blow up my vehicle soo i live with this guilt inside me cuz it makes me feel more like me when i dress but to my parents its wrong
I voted yes, but what I feel guilty about is the deception, not about the cross dressing. I am now 70 and have been dressing in women’s clothes since maybe 9 years old. At first just “borrowed” lingerie from my family, but later full wardrobes that I would collect, and then purge at times I decided to stop – never worked, no way I could stop – seems like many of us go through that. Now I have grown to accept my feminine side, and I quite like being Linda during the infrequent times I can.
My wife, however, is not at all accepting of my cross dressing. She has known about it for several years, and we have discussed it many times, but she wants me to just not do it. She is a wonderful woman and my whole life and family are very important to me. I am afraid to lose the love of those I cherish – feels like I would be so selfish…
And so I hide. But the woman inside of me really wants to be seen, in to just be free. I don’t want to transition, but I do want to be “me” now and then. Seems more important as the years go by.
And the hiding the wholeness of who I am is what bothers me most.
Do your research, counseling ( which I hate saying) make a 2 year plan.. save money money money. And be prepared to lose all of your family and friends. If you don’t, then good, if you do, so be it. Saying ‘ I am transgender, and I’m going to be me a a woman’ is going to wreck everything in your life. That’s 2 choices from then on out.
You can choose NOT to based on people’s reaction, after everything’s destroyed, and be akward for the the rest of your life, or just do you and do it, and hope they come around.